
The Invisible Space of Transformation: Navigating Identity in Between
- Sara | Solkemist
- Jan 22
- 1 min read
Modern society has no language, structure, or protection for people in identity transition.
It quietly erases you, then pressures you into premature identities to socially survive.
We celebrate transformation, but we abandon people during the identity-shift. The “in-between”. Where loss is highest and visibility is lowest.
You walk around like a ghost of who you once were, with no validation from your new circumstances, not yet formed into the person you’ve yet to become.
Silently, you begin to crystallise. Forming in a space where no one witnesses your pain, or your process of becoming.
There is a slow, painful loss that lingers in this cocoon.
It can feel inescapable. Intentions and motivation wear thin when progress cannot be seen externally, and your identity death is not honoured.
It is easy to decay if you are not consciously aware that this is a specific period in time. Although invisible, others do walk it.
This is a vulnerable time of alignment.
Aligning with your truth and values. Listening to your inner knowing, and quietly resisting the pressures and templates imposed by the outside world.
Transformation is quiet, slow, and often unseen, but it is real.


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